In an ideal situation, one’s words and actions should align, but this often isn’t the case for many people. The discrepancy between what you say and what you do has been a topic of interest for psychologists and sociologists. This article aims to explore the connection between saying and doing and the reasons for their differences.
As social beings, it’s difficult for people to avoid being influenced by their surroundings. The opinions of others can significantly impact our behavior, causing us to adjust our actions to align with the preferences of those who matter in our lives. This results in a distortion between our perceived self and the self we try to construct.
For example, when a couple gets married, they may have different personalities, likes, and dislikes, but share some common views. To maintain harmony, they might say and do things that please each other, even if it’s not in line with their true nature. This can lead to engaging in preferred behaviors when their spouse is absent, which can be psychologically disturbing and cause changes in their fundamental personalities.
While it’s desirable to have consistency between words and actions, it’s not always possible due to factors such as peer pressure and societal expectations.
### Key Takeaways
– In an ideal scenario, what you say and what you do should be the same
– Peer pressure and societal expectations can cause discrepancies between words and actions
– This inconsistency can negatively impact a person’s basic personality and self-perception
