Distinguishing Between Sex & Making Love

Talking about sex and love making can be a sensitive topic, and while sex is no longer considered a taboo subject, honest discussions can still be difficult to find. We are all familiar with sex as the act of lovemaking between a man and a woman. In some cultures, sex is described as an act meant for procreation, while in others it is considered an act that brings people closer together. Some writings distinguish between sex and making love, suggesting that they are different from one another. Let’s explore the subtle differences.

Key Takeaways

• Sex is the physical act that a man and woman perform to derive physical pleasure.
• Making love is something that you experience only with someone you are deeply involved with.
• In making love, strong feelings of love and attachment are involved.

In my opinion, sex is a word that simply connotes the physical act of intercourse and has nothing to do with the feelings or emotions of the individuals involved. When a man engages in paid sex with a sex worker, it is purely for physical pleasure and devoid of any feelings. There is no committed relationship, and the individuals go their separate ways once the transaction is complete. Similarly, one-night stands and flings are primarily for sexual enjoyment rather than emotional attachment. In these situations, love is often seen as the ultimate prize, but it can be hard to find or is relegated to secondary importance.

In contrast, when two people in a deep and committed relationship engage in sex, they are making love to each other. This means that they are enjoying each other’s company and what they give and receive from each other extends beyond simple sexual pleasure. Sex with a loved partner is not just about pleasure; it is about taking love to a higher level. The satisfaction experienced after a love-making session with a loved partner encompasses more than just the physical. There are feelings of gratification, love, and being loved that make making love more special than having sex with a stranger.